My Daughter Knows I’m A Swinger

Erotická Fóra životní styl swingování

Dita_Von_Nymph
Čtvrtek 19 července 2012

Well, we haven’t had the talk, yet. However, she’s a bright little thing (and she IS 18 now after all). I’ve always had a frank relationship with her when it comes to sex. I always made myself available to talk to her about anything concerning her (to the point that she sometimes told me that I was making her feel uncomfortable). She knows that she can talk to me about anything.

When she was young and Mr L and I would be heading out the local Swinger Club she would pick up that that this was not a regular dinner outing, and ask ‘So.. off to the club?’ with a sarcastic tone that only a teenage girl can pull off. Maybe it was the slightly more-revealing-than-normal clothes, maybe it was the make-up, or the fact that we would come back in high spirits and head straight to the bedroom. She never asked what the ‘club’ was about, and I never ventured the information.

Then came Facebook, obviously me and my daughter are friends on it, and as time passed she became more and more resentful of my privacy settings. Eventually the time came where I had to allow her to see on my facebook what I wanted to see on hers. This included Friends and events. Yes I have a fake profile. Yes I try keep most of my going-ons on SpicyMatch. However Two years ago the was no Swinger Social Network, so many of our closer Swinger Friends percolated to my Facebook.

It took Chief Detective L all of 5 Mins to go through my profile, reach her conclusion and wait for me in the kitchen with a Cheshire cat smile and an you’re-fucked-now look in her eyes. There was no real point in denying it, as I have a close relationship with her I explained that we had been in the lifestyle for many years now, and that it was part of who me and her dad were. I didn’t get too much of a reaction, so I asked if it bothered her, and if it made her think differently of me, to which she answered:

“No. You’ve always been weird.”…….. ” But I love you Mom”. Then she smiled and that was the end of it.

I know I raised an open-minded child, and that comment made me very happy.

Mr. L on the other hand almost had a stroke and almost dropped dead on hearing the news – Men ;)

Should you, on the other hand, rather like that your Swinging adventures remain private, I would sign up to a dedicated Swinger’s Social Network like SpicyMatch.com as that offers a degree of privacy and protection that other networks such as Facebook simply don’t offer.

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Very true